Hi! So this is my vision of the book club I want to start. I’d
like to keep numbers under 15 and, ideally, closer to 10, but there is still
room for a few more.
Set in stone book club rules: I’m sure the guidelines and look
of the gatherings will change and flow over time but there are a few ‘set in
stone’ rules that won’t change: 1) No erotica/porn – all other genres are
welcome – YA, fiction, non-fiction, mystery, fantasy, poetry, plays, whatever.
Just no erotica. That does not mean that the books we read will have no
sex/violence/foul language. I’m sure some will. But that should not be the sole
purpose of the book. If you can’t finish a book because of content or just
because you find the book so boring that you can’t read another word, that’s
OK. Come to the book club anyway and discuss the book. Which brings us to 2) We
will be discussing the book. This is an actual book club. We will be sharing
thoughts and opinions. We will not be ridiculing or attacking each other’s
thoughts and opinions. If you run out of time and can’t finish the book be
warned – there will be spoilers at the meeting. Come and discuss what you have
read but don’t expect us to not talk about the parts you haven’t read.
For now, the meetings will be the third Tuesday of the month
at 7:00 pm. We will start with a discussion of the book and then enjoy
refreshments and a time to visit with each other.
Host: Decides on and provide a location for the meeting. This
could be the host’s home, a park, the library, or any other place the host
feels is appropriate. The host also provides the food. We must have food! I
think there will be a few of us that require gluten free refreshments. If this
is a problem for you, let me know and I can help. Just about anything can be
made gluten free and taste good – don’t let this be something that stops you
from hosting, we can work around it.
Moderator: Chooses the book. There are a number of resources
to help with this – library, web sites, friends’ recommendations, best seller
lists, and we will have a theme jar if you want some direction (you don’t have
to use this just if you want to). Don’t worry about whether everyone will like
the book – you may even end up choosing a book that you don’t enjoy. No
worries, sometimes those are the books that produce the best discussions. The
moderator also leads the discussion about the book. You can find reading
guides, for almost any book, online that include questions and ideas. You might
also invite a special guest speaker or use videos or music to spark discussion.
Feel free to be creative with this as well.
If you aren’t comfortable with either of these rolls right now
but change your mind later (because, really, it’s fun to host and to moderate!)
just let me know and I’ll add you into the rotation. If you just want to read
the books and come discuss them, that’s OK too. No pressure.